Remington, Chas. Rollins to Hellen M. Warren September 16, 1858 at residence of G. C. Warren by Rev. Edward Moyses. Witnesses: Gorham C. & Augusta Warren, Illustrious Remington and others.
I am making an assumption that this marriage, date of death, and location of burial are indeed for this particular Charles H. Remington. The location and year of birth fit this time and place.
Baptism, Christ Church, Manlius, NY: Remington, Charles Herbert 4/18/1860 (12/24/1859) s/o Charles Rollin & Helen M.
In the 1900 Federal Census, Charles & Abbie C. Remington are living at Watertown, Jefferson Co., NY. They have five children.
The family is still at Watertown in 1910. Charles's parents and married sister also live in the same town.