The marriage was announced in several newspapers -- the Providence Journal, the American, & the Patriot -- according to James N. Arnold's Vital Record of RI.
In the Federal Census of 1860, James A. & Phebe S. Whitford, ages 24 & 22, are living at West Greenwich, Kent Co., RI. With them are: Avis W. Whitford 2, Sarah Whitford 85, & Abby Matteson 62.
In 1870, James & Phebe are still at West Greenwich. They now have two daughters.
In 1880 the family is still at West Greenwich: James A. 44, Phebe S. 42, and Ruth B. 18. Ruth is teaching school. They are living near Amos & Sally Sweet, Phebe's father and stepmother.