The 1810 Federal Census for Cambridge, Washington Co., NY, has three Remington families or heads of families: Jabez, Josiah, & Severa (possibly Seneca?). Perhaps Jabez is Jabal. His age in the census is 26-44, and he is listed next to Josiah, age 45+.
DAR files have his dob as 4 May 1780.
Jabel Remington is buried in Old Mt. Ida Cemetery, Troy, Rensselaer Co., NY: b c1779-14 July 1845. Is this the same individual?